Saturday, July 18, 2009

Taking a break.

Obviously!!

I'm not sure why, but lately I have had little to no motivation for blogging. My life is full of blog worthy material, but I just can't seem to get it in paragraph form and get it posted. I am busy with my little guy and my two girls who are off school for the summer. Maybe I'll be back later, maybe not. I know I'm facebook friends with most of you. If not look me up on there if you want to. It's been fun.

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Friday, June 5, 2009

The video.

The video failed to attach to the last post. Here I go again.
Forgive the quality. That's my dad who keeps asking questions, I guess he wanted to be informed. Enjoy the moment my family was completed.
video

Monday, June 1, 2009

Update: Long and Long Overdue.

It's so hard to know where to begin. I've been needing to post and update on us for a while. Our computer/Internet access was down until Sat. and since then I've only been on here a little at a time. Most of the time with a little guy wanting my attention. Our boy came home Tuesday May 12 at 8:03 or so. I had never been to KC airport and I found it very user friendly. I had been told to try to get a gate pass, but when we got there we realized no passes are needed, because the people getting off the planes go directly through a doorway and we waited on just the other side. We could see all the people coming off the plane. Our social worker warned us that the babies are usually last off. She was right. Person after person came through the gate until finally my MIL said, "Here she comes" An Asian woman carrying a baby and a large blue bag came into sight. We watched as she proceeded on through the doorway. She knew who we were immediately. I asked her if I could hold him. Then came one of the strangest moments in my life. I lifted my boy up out of her arms. He and I stared at each other. I can only describe it as surreal. Everything seemed to pause all around us. It was amazing. Later I remembered feeling the same way two other times in my life, the two moments I first saw my girls when they were born. My in-laws, parents and of course Josh and the girls were waiting. I turned around and felt like I was in a dream. This boy we had waited and hoped and prayed for, for so long was finally here. We let each grandparent take a turn holding him. He was such a sweet boy from the first moment. Now that I look back I think he was probably a little over whelmed. He kept leaning down toward the girls and reaching for them. We went on to the hotel where we spent the night. He didn't cry one time and he SLEPT THROUGH THE NIGHT!! I didn't of course, because I kept staring at him and expecting him to wake up at any moment. The next day we travel home. The kid was so good in the car. He slept and played and pooped out of his clothes. Only then did he let out the faintest whimper, so we cleaned him up. Our next few days at home went well. He did eventually cry which actually made me feel a lot better. I wanted him to feel comfortable enough to let us know what he needed. On night two he cried for "Omma" his foster mother. But he would let us comfort him and would go back to sleep. He did that one other night. Sleeping has been pretty good except the past week and that is due to teething, but his adjustment is going really well. He has been napping in his crib and co-sleeping with us at night (we are trying to transition to the pack and play at night, it's going okay) From the first night he seemed to want me and he is already loving mommy and daddy. He actually said "Dada" yesterday. I also think the other day he said "ball", but who really knows. He likes his sisters but can get a little over-whelmed by all the love and attention they give. I have to say "put him down" quite a few times a day. But we are all adjusting and getting used to being a family of 5.
We used both his Korean and American names for about a week and then started using his American name exclusively since he seems to be answering to it now. I just can't believe how well he is doing. He is a sweet and easy-going baby, but very active. He already crawls like a pro and is pulling up (he was 10 months on the 19th). He has had a few tumbles so far, but nothing too major. When he had been home for about 10 days we went to the lake with my family. It's only about an hour away so Josh and I decided to give it a try and if it went horribly we would come home. Well that little guy did pretty great. I think he had a good time. We let my family hold him some, but we were usually close by and took him if he needed us. We went to church yesterday but kept him with us the whole time. No nursery for this guy, at least not for a while. He did really great and even slept through the service that can get kind of loud. I have to say, I was a little scared about adjustment due to some of the stories I've heard,but he is a dream baby so far. I'll post some pics and a video, if they'll work.

Saturday, May 30, 2009

I'm still here.

Hello. I'm still here. I've been dying to update and post some pics of my new little guy. We've been having major computer malfunctions. Not to mention I have a new little guy wanting my attention. That and the fact that the girls are out of school. Oh, 3 kids at home all summer. Pray for me. Hopefully our computer woes are through and I will be posting again really soon. This time with a much longer, more informative update, and lots of pics of our boy. Stay tuned.

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

What we've been waiting for.

We got "THE CALL"!!! Our boy is coming home! I know, I can't believe it. My hands are shaky and I feel like my insides are going to explode. But, it's a good feeling. His flight comes in on May 12th at almost 8pm. We have to figure out the overnight plans. We could pack up and head home late into the night or get a hotel and head home Wed. It's a toss up. Any suggestions? I'd better go. I've got less than a week now to prepare for my guy to get home. Wah Hooo!!!!!!

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Be patient with me.

I'm struggling to post these days. I'm waiting for my boy to get home and I feel like all of life should be on hold waiting for him too. Well, that's not how life works. Laundry needs to be done, lunches made, bills paid, yard mowed. I apoligize for the lack of posting.

We do have an adoption update, our boy has his visa. This is the last major thing that needed to be done. So now we just wait for "The Call" telling us he is headed home (day/time/flight) Pray that this call comes soon, I've expected it everyday this week so far, so maybe tomorrow. I'll let you know. I'm ready.